Don’t do that. Seriously, just don’t. You don’t need to. It isn’t helpful. It may even be harmful or even hurtful, so don’t. If you cannot say it with truth and love and the confidence of knowing for a certainty that it is right, AND that it is the right thing to say, Don’t do it. If you can learn anything from the past it must tell you that this isn’t going to turn out good.
How much time do you want to spend wishing you had listened to the advice of someone who cared? How many times will you go over it in your mind? How many ways could it have been said or done differently? Who is going to benefit from it? Where is the value in even considering it?
If it could be done, how should it be? If you are sure you should why would you? If you are the one who should do it, could you do it without getting it all over you and those around you? One more time, DON’T do it! Just Don’t.